Bestselling author of The Fat-Burning Workout, Gutbusters, and more than a dozen other self-help and fitness books, Joyce L. Vedral Ph.D., has helped thousands of women attain the shapely body they once only dreamed about. Now Joyce pours her enthusiasm and energy into a compassionate yet hard-hitting guide that shows you how to end an unhealthy relationship so that you can enjoy life to the fullest - with or without a man.Talking woman to woman, she tells you how leaving wrong relationships is the secret of her happiness. Dr. Vedral then spells out the telltale signs to look for if you're unhappy with your mate, your fiance, or your boyfriend. Citing real-life stories from scores of women, she describes all too common situations she feels women should refuse to tolerate:You're on the begging end: you're afraid to say "I love you" for fear of scaring him away; you're being taken for granted; or you're forever waiting for him to propose.He won't "let" you: wear what you want; have a career; spend your own money; or have your own life.You can't stand to go to bed with him: you fake orgasms, you can't rekindle the flame; or you're just not sexually compatible.You're bored to death because: you've out-grown him; you're tired of playing mommy; he never notices you; or things about him are beginning to repulse you.Joyce also provides a field guide of "great catches that women should throw back immediately - and gives a quick checklist that will instantly identify such fellows as the "dog-fish," the "chameleon," the "jellyfish," and the "crab." Joyce tells the honest truth about relationships that drain your energy and waste years of your life. Her "15 ways to leave a lover" (do the 2-step, not the 12-step; use psychological judo; use visualization; realize that solitude and freedom are precious gifts not punishment) provide a concrete plan of action. Then she shows you, step by step, how to replace low self-esteem with empowerment and how to use your will to take control of your life.Not a man-bashing book, GET RID OF HIM is a lifeline for a woman who needs to know when, why, and how to break off a relationship with the wrong man so she can find the nourishing, supportive man that she deserves. With Joyce Vedral's helping hand, sense of humor, and powerful inspiration, you can truly get through the pain of leaving and begin to build a happy, fulfilling life. Read Less