William July, II is an author to watch.  In June 1996, his self-published Brothers, Lust, and Love: Thoughts on Manhood, Sex, and Romance climbed onto two bestseller lists.  Now, in this revised, expanded edition of this underground sensation, July shrewdly examines exactly what's going on between African American men and women.  He explains:Why women expect too much from men, and why men want too littleWhy black men date white women, and why some call them traitors for doing itThe five things most men want to change about womenThe real reason it's so hard for black men and women to get alongHow popular TV shows teach kids harmful stereotypes about couplesWhy the black gender war is raging, and how it can be stoppedAn engaging and informative book, Brothers, Lust, and Love reveals what every woman wants to know about her man, and what every man needs to know about himself. Read Less